1. Remember the agony of being left out in the cold. You were alone, contorted like a fetus on the floor, crying and hoping it would reduce the pain. Love should not inflict that. You deserve empathy.
2. Remember the disrespect of being excluded from the truth always. You are entitled to your autonomy.
3. Remember the lack of peace when together. There was no communication because you were a doormat to him, always waiting around.
4. Remember he does not love you no matter what he says. His words never have had any gravity.
5. Remember he did not say or do the pleasant things because his feelings were genuine. It is just that he is manipulative and had studied you long years while he had your absolute trust. It was only a game for him.
6. Remember he betrayed women before you and will do it again because he thinks his mother wounds make him entitled to that. Pity him but do not let him into your life again.
7. Remember that the purpose of his presence in your life is over. You needed to learn how to love and take care of yourself. He is a piece of junk now and junk needs to be discarded. He is a soulless portal so don't worry about him getting hurt.
8. Remember you have cried enough for handing him your heart to break. It is good that he broke it like that. You will not be scared to love again because it can never be worse than this. Focus upon healing the broken heart.
9. Remember love needs to be shown in actions and not just in words.
10. Remember to forgive him but never forget that he is a player and players play!
